Do’s and don’t’s on the first date with Armenian girl
If you were lucky enough to get the agreement of Armenian girl to have a date with you, then it is important not to spoil the first date. As you might know, Armenian culture is very different from Western culture, though it has common to many Americans Christian priorities. In order not to get your Armenian friend confused or, what is worse, cause her some inconvenience, you have no follow some simple rules, that would help you to make the impression of nice guy (even in case you are not) and give the hope for continuation of your relations with next dates that is already called dating.
Important not to discuss so called “taboo subjects” on the first date with Armenian girl. Do not talk about sex, otherwise you’ll make her embarrassed and show yourself not in the best light, as men who talk about sex on the first date are either to open or give hints what they really want. Most of traditionally brought up Armenian girls consider dating as the start of a long process that would lead to marriage. So, if you think of close relations at the first date, it will not work even after the fifth date, if you would be patient enough to wait until it is going to happen. Men’s and women’s approach to dating is different and the final aim is usually different. If man tries to get woman in his bed as fast as possible, woman, especially Armenian woman, is dreaming for long-lasting relations in case you made a good impression. Armenian girls are pretty, but you will not get easy access to her body, and if this is your goal, you better look for the girl of some other nationality.
What else is just prohibited to do on the first date with pretty girl from Armenia? To talk about your previous girlfriends. If some other girl would consider such stories gauche or boastful, Armenian girl, for whom dating means something serious and for long, would see you as unreliable man, who likes to use and change girls and the first date would be the last date. Somewhat similar effect might cause your sincere stories about your illnesses. If by such approach you would try to cause sorrow and compassion, the effect would be the opposite. Armenian woman in potential boyfriend wants to see a strong healthy man, who is able to protect her if there is a need and if this boyfriend is considered as future father of her children, he has to be able to give a good seed and become a getter, who feeds the family. And here you draw yourself as weak and sick person. Remember: not only Armenian, but all women do not like weak man and compassion is not a good feeling to cause in woman’s heart.
What is good to talk about on the first date with Armenian lady? Try to ask her about her culture. It is good if the day before dating you search Google for some interesting and popular aspects of Armenian culture. With such questions you will have what to start conversation with (it is better than weather discussion) and show her you are interested in her culture and interested in her. From cultural aspects you will slowly move to her personality. Do not be quiet, talk not too much, as Armenian girls do not like it as well, but talk confidently, use well-directed questions and this would make wonders, you’ll see. If you show yourself such a man on the first date, the second one is not far from happening.
Before the date be prepared in advance. If she would like to go to the café or restaurant, you have to be ready to propose where to go; this would once more prove your determination. Among general advices I would give telling her about your personal achievements, if you know how to make it in humorous manner, do it so. Humor is great way to impress woman and to make little stress and discomfort and stress of the first date disappear. Try to tell about your future plans and what you are focused on. Girls like such types of concentrated guys, who know what they want in their life. Women like to follow such men and always be near, supporting them. Do not be afraid to tell Armenian girl sincere compliments, they are not emancipated as some western women and would not blame you in harassment. On the contrary, you will see how she blurs with hidden smile, even if she would try to hide her admiration. Keep in mind compliments must be sincere, as Armenian women feel simulation very well and it would be great minus if you make such mistake. It’s better not to tell compliments at all than simulate.
In any case, follow these advices, but be yourself as women like men for what they are and not every person is suitable for another one. Does not matter what nationalities you both are, there people who have too different characters and would never be happy together. Keep that in mind as well and good luck on your first date with Armenian girl.